How To Kill Approach Anxiety & Reshape Your Dating Life

(Without Relying on Looks or Money)

My Attraction System has helped 1,247+ driven men build real-world confidence, start conversations without freezing, and turn genuine connections into dates.

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Client Successes

Real transformations from my Attraction System

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See what happens when driven men finally get the coaching they deserve

These Men Went From Stuck In Their Head To Taking Action and Getting Dates From Cold Approach In Less Than 8 Weeks

Stop overthinking and start building the dating life you want.

Meet Coach TimB

Meet Coach TimB

When I was 18, I could barely look a girl in the eye; meeting new people made my hands shake, and I assumed confident guys were just “born different.” One day I saw regular guys approaching on a college campus and decided, If they can do this, I can too. So I started approaching every day, invested in courses and coaching, took ruthless action, and rewired my entire identity.

Now, I can walk up to any girl with confidence and I’m in an amazing relationship. More importantly, I’ve helped thousands of men kill their approach anxiety and helped 100,000+ men build real confidence through my free online content.

10 Years of Experience

I have over 10 years of experience helping introverts build lasting confidence and approach skills regardless of their starting point.

1,247+ Men Coached

I’ve developed refined frameworks and daily accountability systems to produce measurable results within eight weeks for men committed to leveling up their dating lives.

A Proven System

This systems-based approach to approaching, attraction, and social confidence is step-by-step & easy to follow which keeps my clients’ motivation high through the whole process.

Your 3-Phase Attraction System

The simple 3-Phase Framework all my clients have used to achieve their dating goals

Phase 1: Killing Approach Anxiety

Proven frameworks to stop overthinking and build social momentum fast even when you feel resistance. This creates a positive feedback loop to carry you into Phase 2.

Phase 2: Mastering Attraction

Signal unfiltered confidence through tonality, eye contact, body language, and universally attractive behaviors. Create man-to-woman interactions that actually lead to dates.

Phase 3: Identity Shift

Lock in an attractive self-image so you never have to “force” confidence again. You transform into a man that naturally attracts women into your life.

“Tim does an excellent job in his coaching program. He helped me go from never having a girlfriend, to acquiring the girl of my dreams for over 2 years now.”


- Tanner Shock, Realtor (Trustpilot)

The Unstoppable Confidence Guarantee

I'm so confident in this system that I'm putting my reputation on the line.

My Promise to You

Follow the Attraction System, for at least 8 weeks, and if you don't see dramatic improvement, I will continue coaching until you do.*

Results Guarantee

See dramatic improvement in eight weeks or keep working with me until you do.

Risk Free

Your only risk is staying exactly where you are, our guarantee minimizes downside.

Quality Assurance

I only work with men I know I can help, being selective about my clients keeps my coaching success rate high.

LIMITED: I Only Open 20 Spots Per Quarter

I personally coach every client. This isn't a course you watch alone.

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know before applying

What happens after applying?

To apply you will be shown a quiz that matches you with the right program for you and gives you next steps. If you qualify for 1:1 coaching someone on my team will reach out to you.

Do you only coach approaches?

Approaching is at the core of what I teach, because it builds long-lasting confidence. Dating apps and social circle are good supplements on top of that.

Is there a guarantee?

I make no promises about specific outcomes like “X dates per week.” I guarantee you’ll feel dramatic improvement after coaching, and if you don’t experience the change I’ll keep coaching you until you do.*

Am I too old / too new / too anxious / too short?

If you’re willing to follow the plan and take action, there’s nothing stopping you from getting results. I’ve coached men that are old/young, anxious/shy, short, introverted/quiet, nerdy, bald/receding, overweight/skinny, divorced, thick accent, new to a city or stuck in a small town, no social circle, sober/don’t like bars, too busy/travel a lot, “bad at texting,” or afraid of rejection/“being creepy.

These aren’t things that make dating impossible, they’re simply problems that need a solution. We’ll break down your specific situation and design a protocol that works for you specifically.

Do I need dating apps?

Optional. We focus on approaches first. Verbal game skills transfer to apps, DMs, and social circle naturally.

How many 1:1 spots are there?

The Attraction Accelerator is capped at 20 clients per quarter to protect quality.

Where are you located?

Nashville, with clients worldwide across time zones. I also do in-person coaching with select clients, if this interests you, mention it to my team after applying.

Is this ethical?

Respect and consent are non-negotiable. Women you will be dating want to meet a men that they get along with and are attracted to. There is no need for manipulation to get consistent dates.

You're One Decision Away

You've invested in your career. Your body. Your home. Your future.

You're not too late. You're not too old. You're not broken.

You just need the right system.

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Understanding Attraction by Coach TimB

Premium dating coaching for driven introverts. Transform your dating life with a proven system.

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